Deep words

Destiny-

This destiny is also a very confusing thing......
The kind of body we get the kind of parents we get the kind of people we meet the kind of results we get are all predecided by this destiny....

This is the thing if in one's favor can make even an ineligible person to sit on the throne of the king, and even an eligible warrior like Suryaputra Karna to get humiliation by everyone...

Niyati is its other name and so is Bhagya and several names it has... But it is unaffected by what we call it or how we look at it...

Unaffected just like other firm Laws of nature like death...... Which is for certain for we living entities for we were born !

DEATH-

Death is never corrupted... Nor does it ever hears the cries and throat-drying screams of people mourning on the death of their loved ones, nor does it stay and watch and wonder of how the people will live ... It goes on to the next person whose time is over......

So firm and strict are these laws of nature, never affected by the feelings of us mortals...

It never happened that the death didn't carry one who requested her or praised her or cried in front of her to leave him no matter what all ways the man used to impress her.... She ultimately takes away life.... 

Nor is she ever affected by the fact that she is always cursed by everyone and always hated by Everyone for she takes away life.... 

And so are other firm laws of nature , unaffected !

From Birth onwards the man is restless....even if he tries to take rest , he cannot for so long because something or the other peeps in and drives him to work! 

Too much of rest invites illness, and too much of activity also invites illness .... All this repetitive hits makes us accept that nothing is permanent here! Life is full of uncertainties, only certain truth is Death, the ultimate reality and the ultimate flow where every being is being driven every second!

Billions were born and billions were dead on this earth yet a few of them managed to understand the deep secret of this mayanagari ! Thousands of books were written and thousands of speeches were dilivered and are being dilivered yet only few manage to understand the essence of it . Few like very few......

Maybe destiny again plays role here , only those who are destined to know that secret know it , coz destiny makes ways for them to learn and understand and act accordingly , But again... Destiny is created by our own actions.... This cycle comes back to us and our actions !

Maybe that's what it is said

उद्धरेत आत्माना आत्मानं ...

This clearly tells that it is our own actions which help us ...

But again how do one perform such actions , how is one inspired.... ?

In this whole journey of man he mets people who share common interests like him , at beginning he gets so overwhelmed by this view that there is actually someone like him...and eventually ends up in getting attached to that person so much....... And then expectations make their way in between them ... And then it lasts no longer.... It's an illusion where a man thinks that someone is totally like him , both of us have same goal , same path. The truth I feel is everyone has a unique path , everyone has a unique goal here , there can be no two people who are exactly same in action in speaking in thinking in nature . All of our paths are tangled and makes us feel that we have a comman path , but this commonness is of very short duration , just like a common road diverges into several roads same way , sometime , someday the ones we are too attached move to their own ways..... And this is very painful if we were too much attached to the person , attached as if we changed our goal and set a new goal of being in that person's company for lifetime as if we fell in love with the person.

My whole efforts in dealing with people are in being so expert in understanding people. To be able to look deep inside them to Pierce thier outer appearance and look carefully how one is from within, and eye to eye contact for long time literally helps here . Many times I keep on gazing towards the second person as if trying to see something beyond common perception and outer appearance. To look into that silence zone which speaks a lot , without literally speaking !

These art matters so much in knowing the intentions of people. Maybe terrorists living with common people know this art so they are able to live so casually among common people , so casually that none of their actions gives a hint of their true nature. This is very dangerous thing for one...coz most of the times we fail to understand people and literally fall for their sweet words.

I would rather love to live among harsh but truth speaking ones than sweet speaking ones , the reason here is the sweet speaking ones care for their own image and have cordial relations with people around , these people don't want to fall prey for someone's anger or words like " who are u to give me advice or My life my rules , don't interrupt or ....many many..."

Actually here two types of people are found.first ones who speak sweet and good to everyone without expecting return and the next ones who speak so sweet and make people fall for them so that they can complete their task through them.

Now for the harsh speakers , even here two types can be grouped. First ones who always speak harsh to everyone without caring for someone's reaction and the next ones are the true ones I love to be with the most.

These are to be the most wise among all types. How? This way- Though being harsh and truth speakers these ones always speak while keeping in mind place. Time , region and the most important their own role in the matter . They speak truth to only those people who they think will listen to them and think over it like teachers scold the most to only those whom teacher thinks is going to be a masterpiece in future . In this teaching case I appreciate the old Indian way of schools ! Shocking but here's an explanation . In old days respecting teachers and following their advices was the foremost duty of a student and if a student fails to do it even his own parents would use to scold him . In this way teacher can work upon every student and make him a person inculcated with good values and perfect attitude , attitude of respecting elders ( of course elders those days were worth respecting ) , of self discipline like being clean and keeping surrounding cleam even if no-one is watching , having a healthy lifestyle , and being a great scholar. All this was possible as teacher had the freedom of trying all possible means to make a student a masterpiece ( again , the teachers then were learned , wise and true scholars who strived not to finish the syllabus and grab the salary but to make their students excellent ones , and this was the most beautiful thing as it clearly broke all barriers in teaching learning process.

Gradually , things change , situation changes and everything changes and then we wonder how people then used to live in ' that' way. We have become sensitive and cannot bear extreme anger or scolding and may take life threatening steps ! People say that internet has brought whole world closer and it is also said that even though the world got connected , people are so alone and lost ! 

The problems of this generation are not same as old days...

Our generation is struggling with problems like depression , anxiety , loneliness and similar mental illnesses..... 

Practical problems are comparatively easy to tackle with teamwork or others' help but these mental problems can be tackled only by the one who is suffering because the advisors or well-wishers can at the most only give you good pieces of advice, good wishes, but the ultimate work has to be done by us only. Suicide is becoming a trend these years... People of all sectors are opting for suicide as the last option which is in fact not at all an option! Farmers, students, actors, etc...... In this era, there are not many physical wars but cold wars like economic conflicts, developmental competition, technological wars, etc.

As said by wise people, we have succeded in executing trips to the moon but find it hard to have a conversation with the newly joined neighbor! There are numerous cases where it is seen that someone in a flat dies and is noticed only when the body has rotten and the odor starts irritating the other colony members! no one cares to peep in or have a short conversation regarding the well-being of the person living just next to their room until there is some need..... Who is to be blamed here ...? We cannot blame the people because we are also a part of them and we very well know how busy our daily schedule is to peep into other things.....

Everyone has their own environment...

Maybe social media (virtual world )here can be a point of discussion!